At the risk of sounding disgusting, there are people out there who are good at "Kissing Ass". Now, at the risk of sounding pathetic, I have a secret fear that I may be among them.

Like providing excuses, the kissing of ones ass should be treated like an art form. There is no right or wrong way of doing it. Well, okay there is a right or wrong way of doing it but they are not black or white… it's all a big gray area. There, that works. The best tool in the art of kissing ass is subtlety. If you are subtle, you can get the people to do their own ass kissing for you. You do not want to be perceived as blatantly doing it by your boss, or worse yet your co-workers.

As much as I hate to admit it sometimes Ass-Kissing is required. Maybe this applies to your job or maybe to your father in law. Possible reasons for sucking up include, looking for that big raise, getting into the right crowd at work or maybe just to strengthen your position. Whatever the case may be and no matter how much you hate to do it, you must learn to do this well. Even if you never use it you have it in your arsenal just in case.

Be choosy who’s butt you kiss, I don’t normally support the ass kissing theory but like the title say’s, sometimes it is a necessary evil.

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